I recall distinctly, after going out on another binge, my wife and in-laws asking me, “I don’t understand, when your life and family and all you love is on the line, why you CHOOSE to drink.” The truth is, I didn’t understand it either. It was unexplainable. I had been in the program of AA for over a decade, with several long stretches of…[Read more]

I recall distinctly, after going out on another binge, my wife and in-laws asking me, “I don’t understand, when your life and family and all you love is on the line, why you CHOOSE to drink.” The truth is, I didn’t understand it either. It was unexplainable. I had been in the program of AA for over a decade, with several long stretches of…[Read more]

My ego has gotten me into a lot of trouble throughout my life. Its said that most alcoholics, myself included, are egomaniacs with an inferiority complex. How true that statement is.

Ever since I can remember, I just wanted to be liked. I wanted to be accepted. I wanted to have what other people had. So everything I did, I did for me. Rarely did…[Read more]

How to handle cravings has been a huge issue for many recovering alcoholics – myself included. We’re going to have them. In medical terms, a lot of times, cravings and the mental urge to drink can be attributed to PAWS, or Post Acute Withdrawal Syndrome. When you enter sobriety, your body and mind goes into shock. All of a sudden, a chemical that…[Read more]

Today’s Hazeldon “Thought for the Day” was thought provoking. What are your thoughts?

We’re in A.A. for two main reasons: to keep sober ourselves and to help others to keep sober. It’s a well-known fact that helping others is a big part of keeping sober yourself. It’s also been proved that it’s very hard to keep sober all by yourself. A lot of…

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I heard this on the radio one morning a while back and the question rings in my brain all the time: What if the only thing you had tomorrow is what you thanked God for today?

It’s a loaded question. There were so many nights I spent drinking and ignoring God’s existence that I didn’t even consider that I was never promised that there would be a…[Read more]

When I first got honest with myself and started working these steps, I found so much healing through working each of the 12 steps. However, some of the steps I liked – others I did not like so much.

For my continued recovery, I find step 10 to be my “favorite step”. I heard a friend at the tables say that “the softest pillow at night is a clear…[Read more]

This group is for men only, please. It is important in recovery that people work with others in the same sex. This group forum and discussion should be just that – a place for men in recovery to fellowship with other men in recovery.

I recognize I am a man starting this group and writing this post – but somebody had to create this group 🙂

This group is for women only, please. It is important in recovery that people work with others in the same sex. This group forum and discussion should be just that – a place for women in recovery to fellowship with other women in recovery.