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B-rad wrote a new post, Remembering Matt: A Friend, A Helper, and a Beacon of Hope 3 weeks, 1 day ago
It’s been a year since we lost our dear friend and trusted volunteer, Matt — and not a day goes by that his spirit isn’t felt here at 12 Step Online. His presence, his service, and his love for this fello […]
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B-rad replied to the topic Don’t Study the 12 Steps of AA- Take them in the forum Group Forums 5 years, 8 months ago
Excellent write up in taking the steps. Thanks!!!
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B-rad wrote a new post, Mother’s Day Forgiveness 6 years, 6 months ago
With Mother’s Day here, I am fortunate enough to have some great mothers in my life to celebrate with. Being clean and sober for myself means that I can be an active participant in the lives of these great women. […]

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Very touching story Brad. Thank you for sharing it.
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Thanks for sharing that, Brad. Wow! An amazing and powerful story.
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I’ve been trying hard NOT to cry for the past few days, and now this. Thank you so much for sharing this story Brad. I am struggling with forgiving my parents and this is a powerful example for me — that it can be done — and the relief and peace that follows.
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Wow, powerful story Brad, thank you for this.
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B-rad replied to the topic Depression and Committing to Sobriety in the forum
Dual Diagnosis Forums 6 years, 8 months agoHi Emma. Welcome! Firstly, congratulations on 10 months of sobriety! What a great achievement. But being sober/clean by itself doesn’t solve the problems in our lives. Which is likely what you’re experiencing now. I know it because I’ve lived it myself. I went through a mental breakdown after 2.5 years sober.
My suggestion to someone who is…[Read more]
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B-rad replied to the topic One Day at a Time in the forum
AA Forums 6 years, 9 months agoGood job coming to this realization, Rosemary! And welcome here. Whether or not you believe you’re alcoholic (by the definition), you can still practice one day at a time.
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B-rad wrote a new post, Became Willing 6 years, 9 months ago
I had a pretty messed up upbringing. My family life as a child was filled with mental, verbal and physical abuse. My parents were divorced before I can even remember. My dad was present but absent at the same […]

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I suffered a different type of abuse.. it was more of mental and physical abuse. my mother would have never support alcohol or drug abuse however here we are. My sister is a recovered drug a user and I could not be more proud. I always felt that I was alright up until recently. I am definitely drinking more than what is typical for your average adult. I have a marriage that is not great and a job that requires more than any person can deal with. I’m going on 7 years on my job. I cannot deal with my past issues and current issues. I’m dealin with alcohol and that is not alright. I need support
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J, you’ve come to a great place for support, and I pray that you will stick around and get it. The other thing is to ask God to help. Seek him with your whole heart, and you will find Him
For I know the plans I have for you” — this is the Lord ’s declaration — “plans for your well-being, not for disaster, to give you a future and a hope. You will call to me and come and pray to me, and I will listen to you. You will seek me and find me when you search for me with all your heart.
Jeremiah 29:11-13 CSB
https://bible.com/bible/1713/jer.29.11-13.CSBHe will help, and so will everyone that’s here, we have all been there
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B-rad started the topic One Day at a Time in the forum
AA Forums 6 years, 9 months agoWhat are the tools that you have found most helpful to achieve sobriety, one day at a time?
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B-rad started the topic The lighter side… in the forum
AA Forums 7 years, 9 months agoPost your favorite recovery jokes. I’d love to hear them!
I’ll start with a couple:
Q: How many alcoholics does it take to change a lightbulb?
A: Just one. He holds the bulb and the world revolves around him.Q: How many addiction counselors does it take to change a light bulb?
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B-rad replied to the topic What's in your AA tool box? in the forum
AA Forums 7 years, 9 months ago5 basics:
1) Pray for God to help you stay sober another day
2) Read your Big Book. 2 pages. Not 1. Not 3. 2!
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Brad, I sent you a friend request on this site, but I don’t think you’ve accepted it. I wanted you to know that there was someone on the site yesterday and today named Kourosh, who identified themselves as a student observer because they are taking a class on alcohol dependence. I explained what this site is for and when they didn’t log off, I…[Read more]
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B-rad started the topic What's in your AA tool box? in the forum
AA Forums 8 years agoTell me some of the things you keep in your AA tool box
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This a beautiful remembrance, Brad, thanks for sharing your thoughts and feelings. We’re left with a silence where his voice used to be. I remember him from 2019 when I first joined this site. He walked the path we all should follow. God,
God,
Thank You for Matt’s example.
Help us stay sober,
carry their light,
and live the Principles
one day at a time.
Amen.